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Wednesday, December 01, 2010

5 days till due date

A tip someone gave me was to go somewhere where i wouldn't want my water to break, like the movies. So Jason and I ventured out last night to the theater and saw the harry potter movie. We had some popcorn and enjoyed the show. The kids must like harry potter or popcorn because they were both moving like crazy. No water breaking though.
Tonight I'm going to a 31 gifts party, Jenna is now selling those products. Hopefully this will be another chance to have an embarrassing water breakage situation. If not, at least I can check out the neat stuff Jenna is selling.
Tomorrow is the big day, I've got the non stress test and will talk with the doctor again. We'll see how it goes. I won't post until the evening, so don't worry if you don't hear anything right away.
Wish us luck! I'm having Jason join me for this appointment since it could be a pretty big one. I said could be - it also could show everyone being happy and the doctor saying we can wait longer if we want. I'm not sure of what I will decide just yet.

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

6 days till due date



39 weeks! can you believe it? Jason says from behind I don't look pregnant. So I'm posting a back view and a side view this time.

Weeks Down: 39.15 weeks
Days Left: 6 days
Percentage completed: 97.85%
Weight Gained: 40 pounds
Waist Size: 49"

It's probably easier for someone else to see it. I feel pregnant no matter the angle. Today was my last acupuncture session. Since there was so much rain here today, I didn't get out for a walk, but I will tomorrow. I did have hot wings last night (sadly not very spicy) and hot sauce on my burrito at lunch. Maybe that will do something?

Monday, November 29, 2010

7 days till due date

that's right, one week until the official due date. the doctor asked for another non stress test on thursday to make sure everyone is still happy and healthy. we'll see if i make it to thursday.

i'm having jason take an updated picture tonight when he gets home, so i'll post that tomorrow.

Sunday, November 28, 2010

8 days till due date

today was my guess date for the babies' birthday, although the day is not over, it is very unlikely that i will be correct. natalie guessed tomorrow and i hope she's right. there is a whole slew of people that guessed wed. nobody guessed tuesday, which makes me think that is the most likely date.

tomorrow i have a doctor's appointment and i'm interested to see what he says about the upcoming week. i don't know if he will want to discuss induction or if he will let me keep going on my own. as much as i want to let nature run its course, i'm getting very uncomfortable moving around. i might just spend the next week laying in bed all the time.

a woman i know with twins boys gave birth at 39 weeks, so i keep using her as motivation. i'm a big believer in "if so-and-so can do it then so can i!" as a motivational phrase.

Friday, November 26, 2010

9 days till due date




Still waiting...

10 days till due date

We are now 10 days away from the official due date. Crazy! Jason's side of the family had thanksgiving today and his aunt and uncle from NC came in for it. Jenna hosted and it was a really great time. The turkey was not cooperating, but in the end it came out wonderfully.

I rescheduled my last acupuncture session for Monday because I wanted to enjoy today and not have to run out on dinner early to make an appointment. Hopefully I'll have to cancel due to having babies.

Go Buckeyes!

Thursday, November 25, 2010

11 days till due date

We are now at 11 days until the due date. We had thanksgiving with my side of the family today and it went wonderfully. I spent a little too long upright and my feet showed it. But I'm taking a rest for the remainder of the evening, so that will help. Tomorrow is another thanksgiving with Jason's side of the family. I'm going to keep an eye on my feet so i don't overdo it.


We have so much to be thankful for this year. Of course we are thankful for family, friends, health, and financial stability. But this year we are thankful for the upcoming additions to our family and the strength we have for getting to this point. Infertility can strain a relationship, but it can also make it stronger. I feel that Jason and I have become closer in our marriage and in our friendship due to this path we had to go down. We have an exciting journey ahead of us and I can't wait for it to begin.

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

12 days till the official due date

There are 12 days till my due date and it makes me think of the 12 days of christmas. Not really sure what kind of spin I can do on that theme, so if I think of something I'll start doing that. Until then, I'll just post pics from the song.
I've tried some acupuncture treatments to get things moving, but it turns out nothing has really happened so far. It is a very weird experience, but it's fun to try new things. I don't think I'll go for other things, but I have one more session left in my attempt. I know it has worked on some people, but they are usually past their due date when they have it done.
There is no food comparison change in baby size, so they are still watermelons. The latest measurements from the ultra sound are 7 pounds each. Two weeks before that they were 6 pounds and 7 pounds, so that makes me think this week's measurement is truly accurate. Jason and I have been taking walks recently to try and work with gravity, but of course these babies are stubborn and will not be swayed. I think they get this characteristic from me.

Disclaimer: if I don't post every day for this 12 days till the due date, it doesn't necessarily mean I'm in the hospital. Sometimes I get lazy and don't want to do anything but lay in bed and watch tv and movies.

Sunday, November 21, 2010

38 weeks

We did it! We made it to 38 weeks. That was my personal goal. I am very surprised I made it. We are getting more measurements at tomorrow's ultrasound, so we'll see what the guess is for the latest weights. I'm thinking of doing acupuncture to encourage natural labor if the doctor is concerned about me carrying them longer. We'll find out at tomorrow's appointment. He's been saying if everyone is healthy, then we can wait. But the weight difference is a problem if it's 15% or more between the two babies. Two weeks ago it was a 14% difference and that's why we are doing all the non stress tests (every 3 days). We are very excited to meet Michael and Malia, but we also think it would be nice to have Thanksgiving and the Michigan football game with the babies still in the belly. Although, it sure would be nice to be able to bend over and walk again. :)

Chewy has been following me around a lot more than usual lately. I think he's finally realizing something's up. He's a little slow.

Sunday, November 14, 2010

37 week - full term babies

36 weeks - forgot to post this one in that last entry

And now:
(prob shouldn't have worn black)
We made it to 37 weeks! That means full term babies. As much as I wanted to get to full term; this was totally out of my control. I am very thankful that we have made it to this point. A lot of risks are now very unlikely since the babies have stayed on the inside so long. My personal thoughts have always been wanting to make it to 38 weeks. I can't believe that is only 7 days away. So each baby is about the size of a small watermelon. They are the length of swiss chard, but seriously - who wants to use that as their measurement food?
I spend most of my time laying in bed or laying on the couch. If I go out of the house, I limit it to once a day. I tire out very easily, so I put these restrictions on myself. The only restriction the doctor has given me is making sure to lay down often to keep the swelling in my feet and legs to a minimum.

Tuesday, November 09, 2010

Relax! Non Stress Test

Today I had my first non stress test of many more to come. There was a fetal heart monitor for each baby and a monitor for contractions. So I looked like the following picture, only with one more monitor strapped to me and a much bigger belly.
Everything looked wonderful. The heartbeats were great, there was lots of baby movement, and there were no significant contractions detected. Sometimes the top monitor slipped and when I would readjust it, it would look like a contraction, but it was just me messing with the monitor. I let the nurse know, so it wasn't a problem. After two hours of monitoring, I really wished for a non stress test like this picture:
But I could only imagine this in my head. I had some blood drawn as well, but they wouldn't release me until the blood results came back. The lab was backed up so it took another 2 hours to get the results. I was there for 4 hours, chilling in a shared hospital room with a knocked up teen and her dysfunctional family members. It was fun to listen to them for the first 10 minutes. After 2 hours of listening to them I wanted to throw something. I tried my best to escape back to my imaginary oasis in my head. Difficult, but I managed to block them out.

So I get to do this test again on Friday, but no blood will be drawn. Hopefully it will go much quicker on Friday. I will bring a snack though, just in case. I am really wanting to make it to my next goal, which is 37 weeks. If I make it to Sunday I will have success reaching goal #3.

Friday, November 05, 2010

Another week bites the dust! (36 wks)


Another week bites the dust!

I'm at 36 weeks! Very exciting. Goal #2 is completed and my next goal is 37 weeks (full-term). I've been seeing a chiropractor who is trained in the Webster Technique for turning babies. Since Baby B, aka Malia, is transverse and lying horizontally under my ribs, I decided I'll give it a try and hopefully she will turn head down. As long as Baby A, aka Michael, stays head down and everyone looks healthy we will go ahead with a vaginal delivery. The risks come once he is out. Will Malia turn head down? Will she be delivered breech? Will she need to come out via c-section? These are all the unknowns that will occur in the moments after Michael is born. The path with the least risk is if she is head down. She may turn on her own once there is more room, but I'd love for her to turn before labor even begins. Hence the chiropractor appointments. Even if I don't get the outcome I want, these appointments have made me feel better and sleep better.


Malia is measuring at 7 pounds and Michael is measuring at 6 pounds! I'm also starting a countdown until my maternity leave begins. My last day of work before maternity leave is Nov 19th. Since I have one more vacation day, that means only 9 more work days until my leave begins! I really should call the short term disability company to make sure my countdown is correct. How disappointing would that be if I had to add 5 more days?
In other good news, my doctor agreed to be on call for me and I have his direct phone number. He only asks that I not go into labor while he is enjoying his mother's thanksgiving dinner. I told him I'd try my best.

Monday, November 01, 2010

Pop-Up Timer

Depending on where the babies are positioned, my belly button pops out a little. It's only about a 20% popout. Nothing obvious; it doesn't pop out from underneath a shirt. Anyway, it's just another indicator of how far along we are. I'm not grossed out by outtie belly buttons; my little sister has always had an outtie belly button. I think it's interesting to see the changes in my body and the belly button is a really good one to watch.

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

34.5 Weeks

We had the baby shower two weeks ago and it went really well. I was overwhelmed with all the love for us and these babies. It made everything feel very real. We installed the car seats in the car, so we are ready for the trip home whenever that time comes.
Mom, Grandma D., and me. We can do a "four generations" picture when the babies are out.

Natalie, Shelly, and I

The baby site says that the babies are each about the size of a cantaloupe right now. The latest measurement from the doctors are 4.5 and 4.75 pounds. My total weight gain so far is 34 pounds. So 10 pounds of babies and 22 pounds of other stuff; I'd say I'm doing pretty good. Only 2 pounds for me. I'm not trying to watch this, but it's interesting to see. They warned I could gain 55 pounds with twins. If these two weren't such picky eaters or avid rejecters of food, I'm sure I would be gaining more.


Weeks Down: 34.5 weeks
Days Left: 40 days (to 40 wk mark)
A truer "Days Left" would be 26 which gets me to 38 wks.
Percentage completed: 86%
Weight Gained: 34 pounds
Waist Size: 46"

Saturday, October 09, 2010

32 weeks

We have reached 32 weeks. Crazy how time flies! We had another 3D ultrasound and it was quite funny how crowded it is in the womb. Limbs everywhere! The stats we received from the ultrasound were different from what the baby website says. The ultrasound and measurements said she is 4 pounds and he is 4.5 pounds. The baby website thinks they are about 3.75 pounds each. Our multiple class said twins grow faster since they usually have less time in the womb, so I'll believe the ultrasound estimate. 8.5 pounds of babies is what it feels like to me, so it must be true!

The babies are suppose to have toenails, fingernails, and real hair (or at least respectable peach fuzz). We didn't see any hair in the ultrasound, but I'm not sure if that would be visible.

The size reference this week is a jicama, but I don't like that. So I'm going with a different site's refernce for this week. The babies from head to toe are about the length across the front tire of a big wheel (16" - 18").


Here are two of the pictures from the 3D ultrasound. It was quite a challenge to get face pictures, since his butt is pressed up against her face. He has his arms and legs in front of his face. She peeked at us with an eye during the ultrasound and he cracked a smile. These kids are cracking us up already. I think they have Jason's eyes. Jason said they both have little button noses. Their lips look pretty big compared to ours, but we'll wait and see how they look when they are born. This was such an amazing experience and I recommend it to everyone (Ultrasona Columbus). I love technology.






Friday, October 08, 2010

Hello Goodbye, Hello Goodbye...

I don't mean to brag, but I had very nice feet before pregnancy.
Now my feet look crazy big. I am drinking lots of fluids to keep the swelling down. I really think it's because I can't elevate my feet very much at work. I have a box to put them up, but I don't think that's enough. I'm going to bring this up at the next doctor's visit.
The before picture was after we did Henna tattoos at Jenna's bridal shower. The after picture made me realize I need to get another pedicure very soon.

Friday, October 01, 2010

31 Weeks


It's getting harder and harder to feel like a normal human being. My belly is very large and heavy and I get dizzy if I stand too long. This is not cause for concern, it is common for pregnant women and my doctor isn't worried. He says to not stand for long periods of time. My last belly measurement was the size of a 36 week pregnant woman, and I was only at 30 weeks!



After sitting and standing at work for 11 hours (including driving time) all I want to do when I get home is lie down on my side to relieve my body from the weight of my belly. I read that 22 pounds is gained on the average pregnant woman and that is not even baby. So 22 pounds of other stuff and 3-4 pounds for each baby. I'm toting around an extra 30 pounds nowadays. No wonder I move so slow. When the weekend gets here, I try to take it easy. I only plan one or two outings each weekend, in order to get enough rest for the upcoming work week.



I'm not complaining, Jason and I are very lucky. We are experiencing a very healthy pregnancy and we are lucky to even be pregnant at all. It's easy to let the memories of the emotions, drugs, and tests we went through to get to where we are today fade into the background.



I forget that I can't do the things I used to. The garden/flower beds show neglect and the household cleaning chores pile up quicker than I like. Jason has been wonderful helping out where I slack. He's definitely doing more than his share of maintaining the household. Plus, Jason is starting up classes again. So far his workload is manageable, but who knows how the rest of the quarter will be.

Sunday, September 26, 2010

What time is it?

We finally installed the clock we have been meaning to put on the wall for a long time. It looks great. Don't worry - Jason did all the work. We have a couple more numbers to put up, but we'll do that later.

30 Weeks


We are now at 30 weeks. Our babies are approximately 15.7 inches long and weigh about 3 pounds each (like heads of cabbage). They have their mom's eyesight (20/400) but luckily it continues to develop after they are born. Hopefully they will end up with their dad's perfect vision when fully developed.

We finally hired a doula for the birth. We have met with her and are very happy to have her on our team. You may be wondering, "What is a doula?" A doula is a professional labor assistant who attends your birth. She will also be our advocate at the hospital. She will help Jason and me during the entire process. And with two babies, the extra set of hands will be very helpful.